Happy Wedding Planning: Building Your Wedding Team!

Now that you have started the base of your wedding vision, written out your budget, decided on where to save and where to splurge, picked your date & time & location your in love with… now you need to find the people who will make it happen!

If you have the budget for your own wedding army or if you are working with a DIY budget, you are going to need help pulling off a full scale wedding.

How do you pick your team? But more important question, who should I hire first…

The art to hiring your wedding team is order! order!

This order is simple… should be based on the importance of the service to your wedding & many wedding pros book up months even year in advance. So here it is…

1st Priority~

Planner… you should hire one because they can recommend wedding pros that not only meet your budget, but personality & style.

Officiant… they have such a major role in your union they should be your first call.

Photographer… many independent top photographers book 1 wedding a day & only 1 wedding a weekend for destination weddings, so they will book up fast.

Caterer… They really are limited on their events and the Oregon is full of foodies, so the many great caterers book up quickly.

Reception Deejay or Band… very important fact in keeping your party flowing they also book early and remember they also book many other events not just weddings.

2nd Priority~

Videographer… Portland has great video companies and they have multiple cameramen, so they can do a couple of weddings a weekend.

Florist… many florist can handle several events in a weekend, so finding a great florist  within 7 to 8 months before your wedding is good time frame.

Bakery… Specialty cake designers only do so many cakes in a weekend.. Large bakeries can handle more events in a weekend. So decide early on what type of cake you would like to serve your guests.

Hairstylist… talented hair stylists book very early especially the ones that come to you on the wedding date, being they limit how many weddings a weekend because of travel time.

Transportation… availability of limos, classic cars & other speciality transportation are really based on locale & season here in the NW, so booking early is always a great plan.

3rd Priority~

Invitations designer & Printing… many companies offer design & printing so starting 4-5 months before is a great time to start, for design, print-assemble & mailing.

Ceremony Music… This can be anything from classic strings to Deejay, so you can take a little longer on booking.. even group with your reception music package.

Professional lighting… They can handle multiple events during a weekend and this gives you a little more time to finalize your decor details.

Make-Up… can be a very personal choice for a bride and many brides know someone & even may be associated with the hair stylist.. so finding a make up artist a few months before allows enough time for trial sessions.

Rentals… unless it is the middle of the summer months or it is a big convention season, a few months before to put a deposit on your tents, table , chairs & linens should be enough time.

Remember if you hire the first on the priority list, your wedding planner can give you all the recommendations on the wedding pros- costs, personalities, time frames & can speak from personal experience from working with them.

Of course there are many wedding internet search sites that can be a wonderful resource… but just because a vendor is listed on one of these sites doesn’t mean it passes as a recommendation.

A good rule of thumb when interviewing wedding pros & vendors is a 3 from each catergory… this way you can have a good comparrison but not too may to be confusing!

The wedding business is a very personal one, so choosing the wedding professionals that you connect with personally is the key to having a wedding that truely is your wedding day.

Happy Wedding Planning!

For more information contact us at info@sweetdreamsweddings.com

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“Boho Chic” by Sweet Dreams Weddings & Events

This year at The Art of Weddings we did a little different design for the brides..  a “Boho Chic” sweetheart table! This design is for that bride who loves the vintage look but want to express a little more free spirit & stand out! Who don’t want to have a cookie cutter wedding design.

Using eclectic arrange of cups, vases & candle holders gave this table that unique touch…

Creating any design for your sweetheart table to your guest tables its all about the details.. Using bold chargers to frame your vintage plates…

Adding personal touches to your place settings, like adding an antique broach on vintage napkins…

Using the vintage look of lace over dark Chiavari chairs is a great way to give them that soft chic feel…

Classic natural ivory linens allows all the color to be used in the flowers, which always makes the table pop…

We really enjoy creating designs and sharing them with all the amazing brides… helping them bring all their ideas together to create a real decor setup. This allows the brides to see their final product before the day just in case they decide to make any last minute changes, this helps prevent the “I should of” statements after the wedding day is over & they are reviewing the photos from the event. So if you would like to learn more about wedding design & styling contact us at info@sweetdreamsweddings.com

Happy  Wedding Planning!

From Sweet Dreams Weddings & Events..

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Happy Wedding Planning: Every Bride is a Luxury Bride!

Every Bride is a luxury bride, despite her wedding budget. Because every bride has one, two, maybe three items that are very important to her… and that is were she will SPLURGE and become that luxury bride.

These things are different for every bride, but we have a few suggestions that will give your event that luxurious touch.

Along with more bang for your buck; because after you have purchased catering for 141 guests, pay the florist for 14 guest tables centerpieces & 1 head table centerpiece there isn’t a lot of funds left over for extras….

5 great things to splurge on:

1. Professional lighting- great way to dress up a room, can cost less then other decor.

2. More Music time- for between your band’s sets or an after party for you & your friends

3. More Service- extra waitstaff can really make a great difference to your guests & your reception timeline…

4. Extra Time to Capture Memories-  adding additional time to your photography to capture all those moments & your grand exit!

5. Guest Entertainment- renting a photo booth is a great way to keep the guest going all night, and double as guest favors… more bang for your buck!

There are many great ways to splurge for your wedding day but remember not to break the bank doing it…. Happy Wedding Planning!

Happy Wedding Planning: Best 5 Ways to Save!

When you start planning your wedding you will soon see that there are many options to choose from in each area of your wedding. So many cool little details you can add to personalize your wedding day experience. Again, every couple has to make decisions about their priorities. A good way to gauge how essential things are: Ask yourself ” Will any of your guests notice if we don’t have…”.

The best 5 ways to save!

There are many ways to d this but knowledge is the key… knowing where to spend & where to save!

1.Trim the guest list: the food & beverage costs per person in the largest wedding expense.

 

2.Have the wedding earlier in the day: a heavy hors d’ oeuvres reception cost less then a plated dinner, guest may drink less, lowering the liquor cost.

3.Skip expensive favors: write them a personal” Thank You” notes instead, or make a donation to a charity close to your heart on behalf of your wedding guests.

4.Cut out the full bar: offer wine, beer & a signature drink. Punch & lemonade are a cost effective non- alcohol options as well.

5.Have a Sunday wedding: Sunday or a weekday wedding really lowers the cost for venues & some vendors.

 

Hope these 5 tips save you money as we hopefully saved you time! Next Thursday is all about the best “Splurges”! Happy Wedding Planning!

Happy Wedding Planning: Creating the Budget!

Budgeting is always a sensitive topic! It’s not about your math skills or professionals charging on a percentage basis for their services… It’s about setting up a budget & keeping track of expenses.

This is important to stick to your budget- but it is also good to have the room to allow around 10% over for a few splurges. Because every bride is a luxury bride, it just depends on what is important to her.

Now the budget should include contributions from everyone who wants to help with possibly the most expensive party of your life… not about who should pay for what part! But no matter who is footing what bill, everyone should feel included in the planning process… This is a family affair!

So set your wedding budget number & separate that amount by the percentage for each category of your event. Get your proposals & bids so if you do have family who wants to pay for a certain part and not a set amount, they can see what options are available. So if you have your favorite Aunt Sally call you and say she wants to pay for your flowers, you then have that budgeted 5% you can move to another category or move to your honeymoon… or even better save for something else that is important to you both!

So pick your “Top 3″ most important category on your wedding day, like catering or wedding gown or maybe wedding entertainment! You can ask the others to do the same that are contributing to your wedding budget! This way you can help to curve over spending & not take on more debt then everyone can afford. We don’t ever want bridal couples starting their lives together in major debt!

When making the decisions about your priorities keep in mind the comfort of your guests, don’t skimp in the  areas that your guests leave your wedding complaining they are hungry, cold or waiting in long lines for the restrooms.

A Guideline to help with setting your budget. Each Wedding is different so you can change the percentages based on your priorities but remember to stay within your maximum budget!

42% Reception (site, food, drink)

8% Wedding Rings

8% Photography

6% Flowers

6% Rehearsal Dinner

5% Wedding Gown

5% Videography

4% Reception music

3% Grooms Attire

2% Hair & Makeup for bride & bridal party

2% Invites & Announcements

2% Ceremony music

2% Church/ Chapel/ Synagogue

2% Wedding Cake

2% Transportation

1% Favors

This will get you started

This will get you started… Come back next Thursday for best ways to cut costs!

Happy Wedding Planning: Getting Started!

Wedding planning used to simple… Typically the mother of the bride would orchestrate the wedding. The bride was allowed some input, but pretty much she went with the flow. And the groom, he just showed up.

Today all the decisions on how to style & design the wedding rest largely with the Bride & Groom. Plus there are many choices to be made, so many it is easy to get overwhelmed. Wedding celebrations have gotten bigger, more lavish & it is normal for a perfectly normal bride to go a little nuts.

A quick Wedding Coordintor plug: It can be difficult to balance the planning of the wedding, work, family, friends, school & entwining your life with someone else. So that is what every bridal couple should stay focused on everyday leading up to the wedding. So hiring a professional wedding coordinator helps to keep these balanced. The main challenge is paying attention to details & not getting overwhelmed. Planning a wedding is supposed to be fun & if you are very organized, detailed orientated it can be done. Remembering that things can go wrong at the last minute, it is how they are handled… That no one will notice, being prepared for anything & that is why you need to hire that wedding coordinator you have that connection with.

So let’s help you get started on your planning with a simple task, but a very important one. Find a good time for you two to sit down to prioritize your wedding.

Wedding Tip: Taking one step at a time, makes it so much easier to manage the tasks & your time.

First task should be identify your dream wedding…. When this task is complete you should only walk away with the big picture not specific details. Like barefoot on a beach with the cool breeze through your hair or dancing in a ballroom surrounded by amazing lighting, eating your first meal as husband & wife on fine china or serving your favorite bottled microbrew from an old rustic claw-foot tub. For each bridal couple your dream vision may include attire or music or even a ski lift… that is what makes it you!

This might not be as simple as it sounds if you & your fiance’ have a different vision, so it may be your first experience in marital compromise. So if that is the case then both of you should write down your top 3 most important peices of the wedding. Than compare to find the common ground…

Then you can write down your wedding day vision base… to have when you start describing the vision to family & wedding professionals. This makes communicating a lot easier, when you start shaping your day’s vision.

Wedding Tip: Always allow room in your heart for change about your vision… sometimes things can change and focusing on a solution and not the disappointment is what really makes a good wedding planning experience.

So take a deep breath and before you start picking colors for dresses or textured linen for your reception tables, you have to create your wedding budget spread sheet!

So visit us again on Wedding Tip Thursday! For great tips about wedding budgets….

Happy Wedding Planning! from Sweet Dreams Weddings & Event

Bravo! Wedding Affair: So Now Vintage!

 

 

 

 

“So Now Vintage” was our bridal show room theme at the Bravo! Wedding Affair. This show is an amazing display of all the Portland area Wedding Professionals. Brides and their entourages can go from room to room enjoying decor, food, sweets, entertainment & most importantly bridal education through the decor and wedding pros in the rooms. Educating all the attendees how they can create fabulous wedding memories. How to use themes or a style to create  amazing tables at their receptions… like using outstanding floral arrangements to make the table more luxurious.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Adding different elements to the table, like different candle holders & unique place cards…

 

 

 

 

 

 

Dressing the chairs up with lace overlays and flowers to create that lavish vintage feel….

 

 

 

 

 

 

Using an unique element to greet your guests….

 

 

 

 

 

 

The wedding cake is also an important decor piece to your wedding…

 

 

 

 

 

 

We wanted to take a popular concept “Vintage” and create an unique display… so when all the teensy-weensy details are all put together the vision becomes an reality.

Brides are always looking for ideas & advice when they come to bridal shows and that’s good because that’s the purpose of them.. But I actually heard the best advice when I was talking to a beautiful bride-to-be and her close friend… a bride asked me the very common question, “why should I hire a wedding coordinator?” well before I gave her the list of reasons I decided to ask her friend who was already married a question first.. “did you have a coordinator & would you of hired one if you could do it again?” She answered me with a bridal horror story about her cake and her in her dress fixing the cake before her ceremony… She then turned to the bride-to-be and said ” you need to hire a coordinator!”

I wanted to give all the wedding professionals in our room a special “Thank you” for working hard and donations to the room…. Rentals by Barclay Event Rentals … Floral by Flowers by Burkhardt’s … Cake by JaCiva’s … Catering by Delilah’s Catering …  Carrigg Photography and DesignBella Via

Happy Wedding Planning!

From Paris With Love: Bridal Show

We showcased three tables  using one theme, Paris… we created three tables scapes that were completely different to inspire the different styles of brides that visited the Rose City Bridal Showcase. The first table was our Paris Flea Market table for the vintage bride.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Our second table was the Paris Fashion, for our eclectic bride.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Our final table was Paris Bling for the bride who loves sparkle.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

For those who missed us at the show or did stop in our showcase, From Paris With Love… here is the amazing photos provided by A NIKO Productions.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Chalkboards are a great way to greet your guests, like we did. Or display your menus or escort your guest to their tables. When setting your tables it really is all in the details, which we tried to show all the brides who attended the show. Details are flowers, plates, napkins, place cards, menus & favors. The options are only limited by your imagination..

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

dressing up your table markers

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

simply adding paper flowers to your bouquet

 

 

 

 

using amazing flower colors

 

 

 

 

 

adding art touches to the menu

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

adding ribbons to the chairs

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

using your favor box as a place cards

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

doubling your mini cupcake favors as decor

 

 

 

 

 

adding detail to your place cards

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

or changing how you display your napkin

 

 

Remember it is all about expressing you, through your decor… thats what makes your wedding memerable.

Happy Wedding Planning!

 

 

Real Wedding: Country Chic

Family- Fun- Romantic, were the three words Christina & Travis used to describe their wedding day.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Their wedding day story begins with a traditional church ceremony…

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Then celebrated their marriage with all their family & friends at the private family residence…

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Beautiful country setting and her rustic chic designs… made the perfect country chic wedding!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Fun decor… great food from Claeys Catering Inc, amazing entertainment from NW Audio Video Productions & sweet treats kept the guest smiling all night long.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Even the cakes were fun….

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The couple staying in the moment really kept the romance in the air… and these moments were captured by Stephen K Shefrin Photography.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

As the sun set the night’s romance continued to grow with fabulous lighting & the country setting… Perfect end to the first day of rest of their life together.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Happy Wedding Planning!

Wedding Dates to Avoid in 2012

When choosing your wedding day for next year make sure you check these dates before you make your deposit on your dream venue.

 

 

 

 

 

 

If you are wanting for all your guests you invite to be able to join you on your special day try to avoid major holidays and other days of celebration. Not just because people may have plans or have traditions of celebration, but the cost of travel may be more expensive on or surrounding days.

 

 

 

 

 

 

If you are planning your ceremony in a church or religious facility make sure you are aware of all the recognized days of worship.

January 1 st.. Sunday, New Year Day

January 11 th.. Monday, Martin Luther King’s Day

February 14 th.. Tuesday, Valentines Day

February 20 th.. Monday, Presidents Day

March 17 th.. Monday, Saint Patrick’s Day

April 1 st.. Sunday, April Fools Day

April 6 th.. Friday, Good Friday

April 8 th.. Sunday, Easter

May 5 th.. Saturday, Cinco De Mayo

May 13 th.. Sunday, Mother’s Day

May 28 th.. Monday, Memorial Day

June 17 th.. Sunday, Father’s Day

July 4 th.. Wednesday, Independence Day

September 3 rd.. Monday, Labor Day

September 11 th.. Tuesday, National Tribute Day of Remembrance and Honor

October 8 th.. Monday, Columbus Day

October 31 st.. Wednesday, Halloween

November 11 th.. Sunday, Veterans Day

November 22 nd.. Thursday, Thanksgiving

December 25 th.. Tuesday, Christmas Day

December 31 st.. Monday, New Year Eve

Which ever day you both choose to celebrate your union will be perfect just remember its about the two of you.. Happy Wedding Planning!

 

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